https://memoirsofanamericanasshole.com/2026/06/27/it-is-what-it-is-she-said/Memoirs of an American Assholeen2026-06-28T00:12:50+00:00“It is what it is,” she saidcruelty, HER, the neighbor from hell and nightmares, unstable and toxic people, something not human? child abuse and trauma and their relationship to the paranormal, insults, drawing lines to create emotional boundaries and why you have to maintain them